REAL REASONS YOU MAY STILL BE SINGLE




Control Freak: Because you are a control freak you can't stand someone like you. You prefer a weakling who will shiver at every word you utter.
Such people may just end up marrying who may never help them in making any decision whether core, flimsy, life threatening etc. 

One Man Army: These kind of people prefer to marry a person without sibling(s), they will be like " how many siblings do you have " oh! You are the only child of your parents ....How nice, Others might say " I hope you don't have any relation you need to cater for" cos we need to build our future and save for our unborn children".
The truth is...these kind of people are not ready to help any other person, except maybe for their Mom and  Dad in-law, they feel they aren't in any way obligated to helping anyone else and so they go in search of one man armies (nah only you waka come kind of people). 

No Partner No Problem: No wonder some people wants to die single, their fear ranges from having to be responsible for another wellbeing. Infact they feel marriage is a bondage and is meant for only those that wants to die of problems.

Sexy For Life: Especially for the ladies, these are the one's that don't mind dying single just because they do not want to loose that their curves.
The thought of having to grow fat, sag breasts, swollen nose & feet, stretch marks here and there all of which most likely comes with pregnancy can make some ladies shiver.
These kind of women may never give you real reason why they do not want to settle down.

For Maids Only: Just because these set of people do not like chores or even know how to make good meals, they will eventually end a relationship/courtship with any partner that doesn't want a maid in his home.

Beauty Is Everything: All these people running after beauty, the bitter truth is  " if this partner of yours get disfigured as a result of an accident, what will be your lot".
Well, my candid advice for such people is that, you find innate beauty more attractive than the physical one which may wear out any time any day.
Love is more than just physical beauty.

Tribes & Culture: If you make tribe or culture a basis in picking a life partner you may be making a wrong choice, even though most of our parent are the architect of such idea....please use your common sense.
Have you ever sat and asked yourself if you are the one that chose the tribe you wanted before you were born?
Inter tribal marriage has been able to bridge division, breed and encourage unity in may ways. Marriage is much more than just marrying a partner who speaks and understands your language.




Have a blissful night rest.


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